Abuse / Trauma
Learn how to identify abuse of all kinds and navigate your way to find true healing, recovery, and freedom from abuse with some of these suggested resources.
Brutally Honest is a contemporary parable based on Psalm 109 and is a wonderful resource for anyone dealing with anger, addictions, or any type of brokenness.
I have not professionally vetted this book yet but it’s on my list to read and has been highly recommended as a book for dealing with narcissistic personality traits.
I have not professionally vetted this book yet but it’s on my list to read and has been highly recommended as a book for a comprehensive understanding of abuse.
“In this groundbreaking bestseller, Lundy Bancroft—a counselor who specializes in working with abusive men—uses his knowledge about how abusers think to help women recognize when they are being controlled or devalued and to find ways to get free of an abusive relationship.” ~ Amazon
I have not professionally vetted this book yet but it’s on my list to read and has been highly recommended as a book for healing and recovery.
From the first betrayal in this world’s history to Jesus’s temptations in the wilderness, this book is a sure spiritual guide to understand betrayal, temptations, and addictions.
Jesus has been through it as an example to lead you through it! You too can claim His victory!
As a trauma-informed therapist, these are books I cannot support or endorse in good conscience.
Many of these books:
are not edifying in seeking a healthy intimacy
overlook accountability necessary in abuse recovery
dismiss the power of sanctification in overcoming addictions and abuse
lack a trauma-model perspective
Numerous clients have reported damaging and harmful effects in response to these books and in some cases have reported their abusive circumstances worsened upon reading them.
Here are some books listed below that we DO NOT recommend reading:
Every Man’s Battle (any edition, any version) by Stephen Arterburn & Fred Stoeker
Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs by Emerson Eggerichs
“Whether the man in your life can be diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), exhibits narcissistic traits and emotionally abusive behavior, or has arrogant and self-centered tendencies, the emotional pain he causes you is very real. Discover the truths, wisdom, and grace you need to spark change in your relationship, set boundaries, and experience healing.” ~ Amazon
Find help in your emotionally abusive marriage, stop the cycle of destruction, and restore hope for the future.
This book will help a person identify damaging behaviors, learn how to respond wisely, stay safe, and contemplate when it may be time to leave an abusive marriage. With biblical application of how to establish appropriate boundaries, this book will also encourage the reader that God sees and hates what is happening to you.
This book helps women identify when they are being controlled, devalued, and abused. It helps them to understand how abusive men think and how to get free from abusive, oppressive relationships. In this book you will learn:
• “The early warning signs of abuse
• The nature of abusive thinking
• Myths about abusers
• Ten abusive personality types
• The role of drugs and alcohol
• What you can fix, and what you can’t
• And how to get out of an abusive relationship safely” ~ Amazon
A wonderful resource for parents to raise awareness and prevention of sexual abuse. The Well-Armored Child is an easy-read and offers practical guidance; bringing to light subtleties in grooming tactics predators use, highlighting how institutions may cover up abuse, and tips for being an ally to victims while empowering them without shame or fear.
In this book the authors outline 10 laws of boundaries while giving you biblically based answers on how to set appropriate boundaries with your spouse, children, friends, coworkers, and even yourself.
I’ve seen many clients find healing through the corrective messages in this book. There were even misbeliefs and misconceptions I grew up believing that made me stop in my tracks when reading.
Sheila, Rebecca, & Joanna’s research of over 20,000 women backs up their theory that the evangelical church has, with no intention to harm, spread some harmful messages about sexuality over time. Especially in best-selling Christian books.
The Great Sex Rescue highlights and refutes harmful messages while underscoring a healthy, sacred, biblical sexuality. I couldn’t recommend this book more!
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