TOYS & TOOLS
Products such as these below promote emotional intelligence and enhance executive function capabilities in developing children. The products are categorized (see left menu) to identify the specific aspect of executive function that is being nurtured while outlining the product’s beneficial use. Watch our Product Review Gift Guide in our home here.
TOYS SHOULD BE SIMPLE AND PURPOSEFUL
“Let them have few playthings, and let these be strong and durable. Such suggestions, small though they seem, mean much in the education of the child.” Ellen G. White, Child Guidance, p. 102
CRAFTING & CREATING
Children can get really creative with this Geoboard by Treasures From Jennifer. It can be used for abstract art or educational purposes such as forming shapes, letters, numbers, etc.
Wooden stamps can add so much fun to creative play. “Showcasing the intricate work of skilled, Indian artisans, our exquisite small printing blocks are filled with potential. Hand-carved from sustainable wood, and each unique in shape and design, they are perfect for printing on paper, fabric, or ceramics, embossing patterns on playdough or clay, or as a beautiful, natural ornament for display.
Intricate and detailed, our small printing blocks vary in size, but most are approximately 2-4cm wide.” - The Small Folk.
Pick an age group and sign up for monthly subscription boxes. Boxes include hands-on science and STEM projects that will engage your child in activities to enhance their executive function. Other boxes could include art and design, create and crafting, engineering, geography and culture, and more!
This non-toxic watercolor paint set would be a wonderful addition to your homeschool or art corner.
Here is a beautiful set of colored pencils for your art stash at home.
500 Activities to Encourage Creativity in Kids Ages 2 to 12--Play, Pretend, Draw, Dance, Sing, Write, Build, Tinker
Coloring can be such a wonderful stress reliever. Our girls even enjoy coloring from this book. The pictures have some detail but overall have larger images and are quite manageable for a determined 6 yr. old.
These pastel chalk crayons will make you “wonder” how you ever lived without them.
They write on chalkboards, whiteboards, paper, glass, cardboard, windows, wood… almost anything.
So easy to clean with just a bit of water and a cloth.
We are so pleased with this small shop, Chalk Full of Design by Lindsay, and their chalkboards. They are a wonderful addition to your homeschool curriculum or home setting. Some boards are even designed for travel!
Let your child’s creativity blossom with this sticky wax yarn. I used this product successfully in my play therapy practice. Children love to create 2 or 3-dimensional scenes to process their experiences or to just have free play. Manipulatives like these are timeless and are versatile for play or even homeschool activities.
CRITICAL THINKING, PLANNING, & GOAL SETTING
“Children should be trained to amuse themselves, to exercise their own ingenuity and skill. Thus they will learn to be content with very simple pleasures.” Child Guidance p. 132
A puzzle that includes “seven pieces that are used to form various shapes and characters. Ours is made from beautiful hardwoods: Walnut, Maple, White Oak, Ash, and Cherry. It comes with a book of 20+ puzzles that have three levels of difficulty which will challenge kids and adults of all ages!” -This & That, etc.
This company has incredible puzzle options that are natural, hand-made, with customizable options.
Pick an age group and sign up for monthly subscription boxes. Boxes include hands-on science and STEM projects that will engage your child in activities to enhance their executive function. Other boxes could include art and design, create and crafting, engineering, geography and culture, and more!
Having a plain set of blocks fosters executive function by allowing children to strategize and problem-solve while engaged in creative play.
Purchase ones pictured by Melissa & Doug
Try these from Hape Toys (Hape wooden toys have non-toxic finishes)
Ages: 3 & up
Materials Included: - 10 Wooden Tree(Olive, Mulberry etc.) Slices with holes (size & shape of the wood slice may vary slightly) - Wooden needle w/ Natural Cotton Rope (Beechwood)
Enjoy this beautiful set of non-toxic magnetic blocks made by Tegu that will assist with critical thinking skills and imaginative play. This set includes 24 blocks that are made in Tegucigalpa, Honduras.
Exercise critical thinking skills with this ultimate fort builder by Lakeshore Learning
“You get 45 poles and 25 connectors—perfect for creating any fort you can imagine…plus a step-by-step guide that shows you how to build everything from a kid’s castle to a super-cool igloo!” -Amazon
Purchase (price compare with Amazon to be sure to get a more affordable price).
30 piece magnetic tiles set. Build with 12 triangles, 18 squares, 2D puzzle cards, and 1:1 figure cards. STEM Accredited by STEM.org. Perfect for brain development, critical thinking, and education.
From 48-piece floor puzzles to 200. Build on your child’s success and encourage frontal lobe development.
Melissa & Doug have excellent floor puzzles for young children.
Ravensburger’s puzzles are wonderful for more advanced puzzles.
Adventist Book Center has beautiful BIBLE/ Jesus Puzzle books. Perfect for traveling.
This beautiful encyclopedia of more than 100 intriguing animals is sure to capture the attention of any child or adult. Each animal has 2 pages dedicated to stunning photography and gorgeous illustrations of its attributes. From largest to smallest, you will have a close-up interaction with each animal as you learn about its habitat and features as well as some fun facts.
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EMOTION REGULATION
“They should be taught to subdue the hasty temper, to withhold the passionate word, to manifest unvarying kindness, courtesy, and self-control.” Child Guidance p. 133
This journal by Promptly Journals is such an excellent resource for kids to write, draw, and express their feelings in a healthy way. With a creative theme of weathering through emotions, this journal is sure to be a favorite in your home.
This Pottery Barn Kids Anywhere Chair would be a great addition to any playroom or calm-down corner.
Include this custom, handmade pennant by Eventide Pennant Co. in your Calm-down Corner to remind your child of their safe place to calm down.
Explore feelings with this beautifully illustrated chart by Stephanie Hathaway Designs. This free download includes a culturally diverse feelings chart, individual cards, feeling definitions, worksheets for anger, worried, hurt feelings, and gratitude. Don’t miss downloading this for FREE. This would be a wonderful addition to your calm-down corner or home setting.
Help your child practice deep breathing to enhance positive coping skills, reduce strong, unpleasant emotions, and regulate better circulation in the body.
*NOTE: the slower the exhale the better. Slow exhalation sends a signal to the brain telling the body to calm down.
Canopies, teepees, weighted blankets and seats, timers, stuffies, baskets, deep breathing charts, feelings check-ins, soothing music, books, calming cards, gratitude journals, manipulatives/sensory toys, character matters cards, chalk boards, coloring books, problem-solving cards, and more…
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Ages: 2 & Up
These wooden egg expressions promote emotion recognition and include 6 primary emotions along with a story about different emotions. The wood has non-toxic finishes and child safe materials.
Jim Borgman’s illustrations of various emotions.
*Help your children understand and manage ANGER as a secondary emotion with this poster that highlights specific emotions that lie underneath anger. Purchase
Try also these Temper Tamers in a Jar
Ages: 2-10
This deck of cards includes 36 color-illustrated soothing strategies for kids and adults written in both English and Spanish.
Try also these Temper Tamers in a Jar
Enhance emotional intelligence and empathy skills with this game, designed for 3 - 8 year olds. Each deck comes with 48 expressive feelings cards, 24 universal emotions, 3 educational games, and 5 therapy games. The game promotes emotion recognition, social intelligence, interpersonal awareness, and connection as well as models communication.
EMPATHY & OTHER-CENTEREDNESS
“But our attainments will avail nothing if not put to use for the honor of God and the good of humanity.” Child Guidance p. 497
“All of us can be kind, compassionate, and gracious. All of us can be helpful, considerate, and courageous.
So remember who you are. This is your life to live. Don’t ever hold back. You have so much to give!
You’re one of a kind, and it’s so clear to see: the world need who YOU were made to be.” ~Joanna Gaines
Another beautiful children’s book written by @joannagaines and illustrated by the talented @juliannaswaney.
This one is definitely my favorite with the storyline, message, and rhyming! 💫 It’s sure to spark conversation in your home about diversity, inclusion, and character development.
Purchase
*More BOOKS for anxiety, depression, anger management, EQ, cognitive behavior therapy, workbooks, inclusion, self-worth, exploitation prevention, grief, and much MORE!
This journal by Promptly Journals is such an excellent resource for kids to write, draw, and express their feelings in a healthy way. With a creative theme of weathering through emotions, this journal is sure to be a favorite in your home.
Encourage your children to be more other-centered by having a special piggy bank to collect money for an altruistic cause. Together you and your child can decide how you want to support or sponsor another person in need.
Self-denial box: “Children are to be educated to deny themselves. …In every home there should be a self-denial box, and that into this box the children should be taught to put their pennies they would otherwise spend for candy and other unnecessary things… You will find that as the children place their pennies in these boxes, they will gain a great blessing… Every member of the family, from the oldest to the youngest, should practice self-denial.” Child Guidance p. 132
Ages: ALL
Reinforce character traits within your children with these beautiful card sets from September & Co. Every set focuses on different character attributes in the home, Bible, and the world. Each trait card has a definition, an opposite word, a question to prompt the child, “I can” statements to instill positive affirmation, and a corresponding Bible verse. These are wonderful resources for your home.
Check out my review here.
“Heart education is of more importance than the education gained from books.” Child Guidance p. 497
GRATITUDE & JOURNALING
“Were children, in the home life, educated and trained to be grateful to the Giver of all good things, we would see an element of heavenly grace manifest in our families. Cheerfulness would be seen…” Child Guidance p. 148-149
Beautifully designed gratitude journal by Promptly Journals with weekly/ daily prompts as well as blank pages for free gratitude expression.
What better way to turn around a child’s mood than to express gratitude! This journal offers a kid-friendly design with 3 spaces to list what you’re grateful for, a spot to identify a person who brought you joy that day, a place to identify how you felt about your day, and what the best part was. This journal use could be taught to very young children due to its simple design. It’s one of our favorites in our home and is used in our calm-down corners.
Promptly Journals also has beautiful gratitude journals that are thorough and “will guide you to deeper gratitude with seven weekly prompts. You can choose to answer one prompt per day or simply set aside one day per week to go through all seven.” - Promptly Journals
This journal by Promptly Journals is such an excellent resource for kids to write, draw, and express their feelings in a healthy way. With a creative theme of weathering through emotions, this journal is sure to be a favorite in your home.
MEMORY
“In childhood and youth practical and literary training should be combined, and the mind stored with knowledge.” Child Guidance p. 295
These 5x7 rounded-edged cards will be a sure way to help hide God’s word in your family’s hearts. This card set includes 27 beautifully illustrated Bible verses per letter of the alphabet. This will be a treasure for your home.
The Scripture quotes are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®)
Memorizing scripture is frontal lobe enhancing which is helpful in boosting emotional intelligence (EQ). Hiding God’s word and promises in your heart ensures peace and uplifts the soul.
Join our ABC Scripture challenge by choosing one verse for each letter of the alphabet.
Hide God’s Word in your heart and commit verses to memory with these beautiful coloring scripture booklets and cd with music that will help you to memorize. Buy them individually or as a complete set.
The complete set includes Psalm 23, The Lord’s Prayer, The Beatitudes, The Temptations of Jesus, The Ten Commandments, Isaiah 53, 1 Corinthians 13, Psalm 91, Psalm 139, and The Creation.
Memory enhances executive function. Some memory games such as this are great for young children. The Jesus Loves the Little Children version we have displayed in our video is available in some Christian book stores.
Included are 5 games in 1 set of flashcards; memory game, social skills, emotions cards, empathy enhancement, and more. Memory games can promote focused attention, reduce impulse control, and assist with flexible shifting in the brain.
PHYSICAL FITNESS & GARDENING
“Whatever promotes physical health, promotes the development of a strong mind and a well-balanced character.” Child Guidance p. 361
This swing from The Tot is a compact travel swing that you can take backpacking, camping, a trip to the park or to mount to a tree in your own yard. Made from FSC-certified Birch plywood with cotton ropes, it includes 2x carabiners and a cotton carry bag.
Try a saucer swing
Get your young kids out and moving to enhance frontal lobe circulation.
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Make harvesting from your garden easy with this beautiful, natural rattan buggy by Maisonette.
These playmats by Nugget Comfort provide infinite ways for your child to creatively configure structures for play and recreation. Perfect for high indoor energy during long winter months.
Encourage body movement and enhance focused attention with this balance board.
Ages: preschool & up
This creative deck of cards includes 52 games, activities and art projects for children to do in nature. Whether in the backyard, a national park or a patch of grass kids will have fun with this beautifully illustrated deck of cards.
Kids will get moving on this durable, versatile toy by Lil’ Rider. Use outdoor or indoor; perfect during the winter months to glide on smooth floors. Can hold up to 150lbs. Our girls love this toy and have endless fun.
This “happy” light has been clinically proven to increase your energy and mood. Very effective light therapy to use during winter blues for those who struggle with Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), boosts energy and even assists with jet lag. This light is the same light sold through Dr. Neil Nedley’s Depression & Anxiety Recovery Program. It is as effective as 10,000 lux white lights, simulates being outdoors under a sunny blue sky, includes 5 light intensity settings, and has a 90 Day No Hassle Money Back Guarantee from Philips.
SOCIAL / EMOTIONAL LEARNING
“Each member of the household should sacredly regard the feelings and respect the right of the others. By this means mutual consideration and forbearance will be cultivated, prejudices will be softened, and rough points of character smoothed.” Child Guidance p. 205
Ages: 13 & Up
A box of 135 open-ended questions specifically designed for teens to engage and promote conversations. Questions vary from funny to thought-provoking.
* More games for children and teens
“All of us can be kind, compassionate, and gracious. All of us can be helpful, considerate, and courageous.
So remember who you are. This is your life to live. Don’t ever hold back. You have so much to give!
You’re one of a kind, and it’s so clear to see: the world need who YOU were made to be.” ~Joanna Gaines
Another beautiful children’s book written by @joannagaines and illustrated by the talented @juliannaswaney.
This one is definitely my favorite with the storyline, message, and rhyming! 💫 It’s sure to spark conversation in your home about diversity, inclusion, and character development.
Purchase
*More BOOKS for anxiety, depression, anger management, EQ, cognitive behavior therapy, workbooks, inclusion, self-worth, exploitation prevention, grief, and much MORE!
Explore feelings with this beautifully illustrated chart by Stephanie Hathaway Designs. This free download includes a culturally diverse feelings chart, individual cards, feeling definitions, worksheets for anger, worried, hurt feelings, and gratitude. Don’t miss downloading this for FREE. This would be a wonderful addition to your calm-down corner or home setting.
Included are 5 games in 1 set of flashcards; memory game, social skills, emotions cards, empathy enhancement, and more. Memory games can promote focused attention, reduce impulse control, and assist with flexible shifting in the brain.
Canopies, teepees, weighted blankets and seats, timers, stuffies, baskets, deep breathing charts, feelings check-ins, soothing music, books, calming cards, gratitude journals, manipulatives/sensory toys, character matters cards, chalk boards, coloring books, problem-solving cards, and more…
See our calm-down corner products
pc. Tatiana Syrikova by Pexels
Ages: ALL
Reinforce character traits within your children with these beautiful card sets from September & Co. Every set focuses on different character attributes in the home, Bible, and the world. Each trait card has a definition, an opposite word, a question to prompt the child, “I can” statements to instill positive affirmation, and a corresponding Bible verse. These are wonderful resources for your home.
Check out my review here.
“Heart education is of more importance than the education gained from books.” Child Guidance p. 497
Hand puppets can be a wonderful tool to facilitate difficult discussions with young children or enhance play.
This set has puppets that represent a variety of diverse ethnicities.
Puppets can be used to help with problem-solving, introduce a cognitive behavior concept, practice emotional intelligence or encourage creative play.
Ages: 6 & Up
These are soft foam cubes with 36 engaging questions and an activity guide that promote social and gross motor skills.
SOCIODRAMATIC PLAY / MAKE-BELIEVE
“Allow the children under your care to have an individuality, as well as yourselves. Ever try to lead them, but never drive them.” Child Guidance p. 210
Having a play stand like this can spark innovative play for children. Use it as a shop, market place, or throw a blanket over the bottom and turn it into a puppet show. This set by Maisonette includes play food items, a tablet-style register, chalkboard signs for versatile play, and more.
See also Market Place Stand by KidKraft
Short on space? Try this over the chair model
Collapsable tents can make a great place for neutral play. Using imagination during sociodramatic play, the sky is the limit with these fun spaces.
Having a few role-play costumes on hand can inspire creative play for children. Here are some simple dress-up options that we love.
Chef coat and hat by Crate & Kids (personalization options)
Astronaut helmet & outfit / Construction worker / Firefighter / Pilot / Prairie Pioneer Dress / Scientist / Doctor
This kitchen by Maisonette is the exact model our girls were gifted with and love. I’ve not yet purchased from Maisonette; the girl’s kitchen was found at a local shop in Canada but you can also find a similar model here on Amazon.
PLAN toys birthday cake
IKEA pots and pans
Children will have hours of fun with this Melissa & Doug shopping cart. It’s realistic nature and sturdy frame will inspire many hours of open play.
Nurture your child’s sociodramatic play with baby doll accessories. This Pottery Barn Kids stroller is durable and very realistic. You can also choose the fabric for the stroller. Playing with baby dolls can also foster empathy through a child’s dramatic play.
This adorable Pottery Barn Kids vacuum is a replica mini version and actually sucks up debris.
Nurture your child’s sociodramatic play with this Pottery Barn Kids play cash register. It features an on/off button, solar-powered calculator and a real beeping sound.
Kids love to play make-believe. It’s a healthy way to communicate their thoughts and feelings. Children tend to process their experiential learning and stressors through play.
Baby dolls can often foster nurturing traits in children and facilitate empathy skills, as well as feeling expression.
Purchase (choose from a variety of ethnic dolls)
STORYTELLING PLAY
Felts are such a unique way for storytelling play. Children can creatively act out scenes, sequencing, and social-emotional play. Betty Lukens felts are the most widely known and have beautiful Bible sets as well as themed felt books. Little Folk Visuals also has some nice sets off Amazon.
Purchase Little Folk Visuals on Amazon
These magnetic storyboards are durable and easy for children to make their own unique scenes for creative play. There are many different themes and great for travel.
A train set is a wonderful opportunity for unique storytelling play. This set is from Maisonette or expand your collection with Brio linked here.
A wooden dollhouse fosters creative storytelling play for hours of fun. This Magnolia Hearth & Hand is an older model that may be hard to find now but you can find something similar.
*try a travel felt dollhouse for on-the-go play.
“In order for children and youth to have health, cheerfulness, vivacity, and well-developed muscles and brains, they should be much in the open air and have well-regulated employment and amusement.” Child Guidance p. 339
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This IKEA art easel is incredibly affordable and opens up a variety of possibilities for artistic expression.
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