The Great Sex Rescue

The Great Sex Rescue

I’ve seen many clients find healing through the corrective messages in this book. There were even misbeliefs and misconceptions I grew up believing that made me stop in my tracks when reading. ⁣
Sheila, Rebecca, & Joanna’s research of over 20,000 women backs up their theory that the evangelical church has, with no intention to harm, spread some harmful messages about sexuality over time. Especially in best-selling Christian books.
⁣The Great Sex Rescue highlights and refutes harmful messages while underscoring a healthy, sacred, biblical sexuality. ⁣I couldn’t recommend this book more! ⁣

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Why Motherhood Matters: An Invitation to Purposeful Parenting

Why Motherhood Matters: An Invitation to Purposeful Parenting

Excited to dive into this book as it’s on my list to read. It’s come highly recommended as it imparts gentle encouragement to embrace motherhood in all its chaos. With topics on faith, wellness, education, and relationships this book is sure to lead you into the biblical wisdom of Christian parenting.

“Motherhood is an incredible labor of love—and in the scope of eternity, it matters more than you know.” ~Amazon

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UnSelfie: Why Empathetic Kids Succeed in Our All-About-Me World

UnSelfie: Why Empathetic Kids Succeed in Our All-About-Me World

On my booklist to read, as our culture pushes for a self-centered, “me” focus mentality.

“UnSelfie by Dr. Michele Borba explains what parents and educators MUST do to combat the growing empathy crisis among children today—including a 9-step empathy-building program with tips to guide kids from birth through college, and beyond.” ~ Amazon

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Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men

Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men

I have not professionally vetted this book yet but it’s on my list to read and has been highly recommended as a book for a comprehensive understanding of abuse.

In this groundbreaking bestseller, Lundy Bancroft—a counselor who specializes in working with abusive men—uses his knowledge about how abusers think to help women recognize when they are being controlled or devalued and to find ways to get free of an abusive relationship.” ~ Amazon

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Books to Avoid

Books to Avoid

As a trauma-informed therapist, these are books I cannot support or endorse in good conscience.

Many of these books:

  • are not edifying in seeking a healthy intimacy

  • overlook accountability necessary in abuse recovery

  • dismiss the power of sanctification in overcoming addictions and abuse

  • lack a trauma-model perspective

Numerous clients have reported damaging and harmful effects in response to these books and in some cases have reported their abusive circumstances worsened upon reading them.

Here are some books listed below that we DO NOT recommend reading:

Every Man’s Battle (any edition, any version) by Stephen Arterburn & Fred Stoeker

Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs by Emerson Eggerichs

Help Her Heal: An Empathy Workbook for Sex Addicts to Help their Partners Heal

Help Her Heal: An Empathy Workbook for Sex Addicts to Help their Partners Heal

An excellent tool for any recovering sex addict who desires healing for his spouse/ partner. As addicts recognize the damaging effects their sexual addictions and Integrity Abuse Disorder (see Dr. Omar Minwalla’s research and terminology) had on their spouses, they realize they need help to learn how to empathize further with her. Learn ways to help her heal!

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When Loving Him Is Hurting You: Hope and Help for Women Dealing With Narcissism and Emotional Abuse

When Loving Him Is Hurting You: Hope and Help for Women Dealing With Narcissism and Emotional Abuse

“Whether the man in your life can be diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), exhibits narcissistic traits and emotionally abusive behavior, or has arrogant and self-centered tendencies, the emotional pain he causes you is very real. Discover the truths, wisdom, and grace you need to spark change in your relationship, set boundaries, and experience healing.” ~ Amazon

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