As a trauma-informed therapist, these are books I cannot support or endorse in good conscience.
Many of these books:
are not edifying in seeking a healthy intimacy
overlook accountability necessary in abuse recovery
dismiss the power of sanctification in overcoming addictions and abuse
lack a trauma-model perspective
Numerous clients have reported damaging and harmful effects in response to these books and in some cases have reported their abusive circumstances worsened upon reading them.
Here are some books listed below that we DO NOT recommend reading:
Every Man’s Battle (any edition, any version) by Stephen Arterburn & Fred Stoeker
Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs by Emerson Eggerichs